Saturday, March 27, 2010

Ladies Love Yourselves

Ladies I want to emphasize that y'all need to love yourselves no matter what. Love yourselves even if others do not. Love yourselves just how y'all are. Don't be fooled by a guy who tells you nice stories about his life or about y'all's future life together, even when he's looking like a mess. No, no, no, no. If his stories and his life right now don't seem to match, to be coherent, you need to watch out because he might be lying to you somehow. Use your woman's intuition, if things don't seem right.

Ladies don't let anybody buy you. Don't let anybody use you. Your a treasure, so treat yourself like so. Respect yourself. Don't let a guy give you expensive things for no reason because the lucid implications behind those fancy gifts will hurt you if you accept.

I'm telling you, don't be fooled into thinking you have control. Don't be fooled by his words because many of these guys are experts in the art of rhetoric, so they know what say to convince you of anything.

Do not have sex because he said he loves you! Not all guys have the integrity they seem to have, so don't trust everyone just like that. Even if the trust is there, like I said before, you have to watch out. You have to respect and love yourself not to have sex. If he loves you, he'll respect you, and he will know to wait.

Love yourself because you have to love yourself for others to love you and for you to love others. Don't complain about yourself. Your height, your weight, your nose, or whatever. No, don't complain because you are beautiful. Yes, you are so beautiful.

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